Reader Letters: Housewife Can Be Successful
HOUSEWARE MAY ALSO BE SUCCESSFUL
Until recently, I lived in time pressure mode - an interesting job, trips, meetings, good earnings and independence. However, for 6 years I was tired and decided to take a break. I wanted a family and a home. Therefore, when my future husband proposed to me, I gladly agreed. In connection with the departure of my husband to a new job, I had to quit. How difficult this dismissal was! My heart sank when I realized that without me in the company “everything is spinning, spinning, working”, and another girl was taken in my place ... It seemed that everyone was paying attention to me on the street: now, look, it doesn’t work! I felt uneasy when in the company of friends they asked me what I was doing, but I had nothing to answer. This went on until a baby was born. I must say that with the birth of a son, the circle of communication has changed dramatically, mainly couples with children. Most of the women in our environment did not work, but were engaged in family, children and at the same time felt great. I found an interesting work that can be done remotely, I began to play sports, improve my culinary skills, there was a time to travel, I started repairing the apartment, and most importantly, I see how our children are growing (now we have two children - a boy and a girl), I get great joy and a lot of positive emotions from communicating with them, I still have time to devote to his beloved husband. And when I come to the office to talk with former colleagues, I understand that I made the right choice in my life - I created a family and gave birth to children, but nothing has changed at work.
Olga, by email
When we are alone or we have problems in life, what do we want? Most likely, romance ... so that, like in the movie, a handsome guy rushes to your aid and steals from all the failed failures to hell. And here comes a simple guy who is assigned the qualities of a hero from our head. At first everything seems to be good: you, blinded by happiness, in a romantic haze, and he, thinking about how lucky he is. What begins later? We suddenly clearly understand that he is not the one, and all this is not that, and in general again created a problem for themselves ... Dear ones, the main thing is to believe in yourself and in those around you ... You do not need to come up with images, you need to see beauty in people. When you meet people on the streets or at work, you look at them. After all, they, having hidden their thoughts behind a mask of seriousness, think about something else! And even that guy has a lot of his inherent only to him. It seems to me that this is the solution to the consequences and the suppression of your little romantic craziness ...