Striptease, beefsteak and preference. How to make a husband happy?
An ideal wife should be a good mistress, a caring mother, a wonderful lover, a true friend ... And an ideal wife can present her husband a pleasant surprise. Let's try?
The main scourge of spouses who have been living together for a long time is the most common boredom. You get used to the way your other half talks, what you dress, how to make love, how you behave in a certain situation. You cease to amaze each other, and with surprises, joy also leaves. We offer you several ways to surprise your husband. Probably, it is not worthwhile to put all these ideas into practice within one week: so the faithful may be frightened - why did it suddenly change so? The essence of these little joys is precisely that they happen infrequently and always unexpectedly.
Give him a massage
Dim the lights, put some calm music and light candles. Lay your husband on a carpet or thick mattress. The main thing is that the surface is hard.
Add a few drops of aromatic to the massage oil. Pour a little oil into your palm and rub. Then, run your hands from bottom to top along the back of a man without touching the skin so that he feels the warmth of your hands.
Put your hands on his shoulders and slowly run along the spine (from top to bottom towards the sacrum) and buttocks (from the sacrum to the hip joints). Swipe your hands along the sides, massage your neck.
Start massaging the back from the spine along the ribs with stroking movements, gradually increasing pressure and amplitude. The meaty parts of the buttocks can be massaged even with fists, and the palms where the bones are located closer to the skin can be massaged with the palms.
Finishing the massage, use your fingertips to make gentle movements, as if brushing something light.
Grill him a steak
The most important thing is to choose the right meat. Cutting is best, but a thick edge is fine. Good meat should be blood red: the lighter it is, the less juicy. A piece should contain only small streaks of fat. Do not try to save! In the end, you do not spoil your husband with delicacies every day.
You will need: 800 g of beef, ½ teaspoon ground black pepper, 2 tbsp. tablespoons thyme, vegetable oil.
Sprinkle meat on both sides with pepper and thyme, grease with vegetable oil. Put on a plate and leave for half an hour at room temperature. Lightly grease the bottom of the pan with vegetable oil, place the meat in a hot pan and fry on each side until cooked. Leave the prepared meat for 5 minutes, then cut into slices.
Wake him up in the morning
Let your husband from time to time wake up in the morning not from the alarm, but from your gentle touch. Wake up before your husband. Take off your favorite dimensionless pajamas and put on a silk nightgown. Wash, scent and climb into bed and wake your husband with light touches. Imagine a “butterfly kiss” - blink, touching the eyelashes of his cheek, whisper something gentle in your ear. And an excellent mood for the whole day is guaranteed to both of you.
Touching the face is always very pleasant. And when the beloved’s hands do not just touch, but also look after the man’s face, it’s doubly pleasant.
So, put your husband in a comfortable chair or high chair, let him lean back and relax. Place a hot, damp towel on his face and neck to soften his skin. When the towel has cooled, remove it and apply face or neck cream or shaving foam. Shave in the direction of hair growth, start from the tanks, moving to the neck. Repeat the procedure with a hot towel, then shave again, but already against hair growth and starting from the neck. Another hot towel. And finally, cold to close the pores and refresh the skin. Finish off with a light facial massage with cream or cologne after shaving.
Show him a striptease
The most important thing here is the mood. If you are shy or unsure of your abilities, postpone striptease until better times. And if you have long wanted to do this, but you still have not decided, then it is worth a try. To get started, rehearse in front of the mirror with light, pleasant music. A woman who enjoys her body and dance is always sexy. Do not strive to copy the movements of professional strippers. You can just dance and undress in the dance. Rehearse your movements to feel free. Choose clothes that you simply take off without messing with laces and fasteners. Do not think about how perfectly you move. Dance as if you are doing it alone, for yourself. If you don’t feel confident enough to take off all your clothes, stay in your beautiful underwear or put on a translucent scarf.
Learn to play preference
While on Saturday evening, the husband and his friends “paint the bullet”, you miss alone and feel superfluous on this holiday of life. A familiar picture? You cannot force your husband and his friends not to love the preference. But to learn to play it is completely in your power. And imagine how amazed and proud your husband will be if one day you beat all experienced male players.
Be on good terms with his boss
You are the most important person for your husband in your personal life, and the boss is the main person in your professional life. And, if you and your husband go to corporate events, your task is to establish respectful relations with his superiors. The main rule when communicating with the boss of the husband: you absolutely do not need to make a lasting impression on him. After all, you do not want to cause jealousy of your spouse? Your first goal is to show your boss how you and your spouse value him. Be humble, do not try to wipe your spouse into the background and enthusiastically listen to everything that the chef will tell. Ask questions, give the impression that you are very interested in listening to the boss. Your second goal is to show your spouse in the best possible way. Direct the conversation towards his interests or lead the conversation to a story that he tells well. Help him feel his horse! If you talk about the work of the company, it’s good to demonstrate that you are in the know and follow your husband’s career. On the other hand, your awareness should not be excessive, otherwise it may seem that your husband is not able to store confidential information.
Throw him a party
If you arrange a surprise for your husband’s birthday instead of the usual feast, he will never forget that. The surprise scenario can be very simple. For example, an old joke with an “empty” apartment and friends who suddenly jump out of secluded corners and shout: “Congratulations!” Hint to your husband that you are planning something for the evening, but do not specify what exactly. For example, say that you are giving him a birthday in the country, but don’t mention the arrival of friends. If you decide to have a party, then a surprise for him will be the appearance of an old school friend with whom he had long wanted to meet, but did not find the time.
Treat it with sweets
It is difficult for a real macho to admit that he is not indifferent to sweets. But the main charm of marriage lies precisely in the fact that you can not hide your little weaknesses from your own wife, because she had long ago guessed about them.
Bake chocolate cookies for your husband. Mix 1.5 cups flour, 1 teaspoon of soda and 1 teaspoon of salt, set aside. Beat with a mixer softened margarine, 0.5 cups of sugar, 1 cup of brown sugar, 1 teaspoon of vanillin. Add 2 eggs and beat until mass is airy. Add the flour mixture, 2 cups of oatmeal (the usual "Hercules" is suitable) and chocolate chopped into small pieces. Spread the dough on a baking sheet covered with wax paper with a tablespoon and bake at 170 degrees for 10-12 minutes.
Call him to work
Surely your husband has long been accustomed to the fact that if you call him at work, then only on business. Ask them not to forget to drop into the store, remind them to take the mixer from the repair, find out if he will come home soon and fix the faucet in the bathroom. He is so used to it that he no longer expects anything else. Surprise your spouse: call him to tell about your feelings. Let him know what you think about him, not only in connection with leaking taps. And that, although you have been together for many years, he is the most coveted and most beloved. You can whisper something spicy and daring to your husband, or you can - gentle and romantic. The main thing is that he feel loved. If you decide to say something sexy, do not describe your fantasies in detail, leave your husband room for imagination:
Remember, you asked me ... (Further on how he asked you to do something sexy, but you were shy or too tired to fulfill the request.) I was thinking about this all day today - I can’t wait for you to come home.
I remembered how you like it when I put on ... (fill in the blank). So today I'm going to wear it.
You are the only man who can make me happy. And tonight I'll prove it to you.
Update his wardrobe
Perhaps your husband believes that real men do not attach importance to appearance. But by and large, it depends on the woman how her man looks. And, even if the husband still wears a sweater that his mother gave him for his twentieth birthday and is suspicious of everything new, persuade him to change his style a little. And as soon as others begin to compliment him, he will learn to appreciate your advice.
- Try replacing a classic tie with a very fashionable one this season - narrow.
- Shirts on a high stand (sometimes on two buttons) are in fashion. The collar should be voluminous.
- If your husband is not afraid to experiment, buy him a bright sweater with a round or V-neck. It can be worn with jeans, and in cold weather and with a suit.
- Another fashionable detail is a knitted vest.
- In summer, polo - knit shirts with a short sleeve and a shirt collar, usually on three buttons, are very relevant.
- The last squeak of sports style - icons. Order an icon with your image and decorate your husband’s favorite baseball cap with it. And let him just try not to wear it!
- It’s time to get rid of pointed shoes, and instead choose shoes with round toes.